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Visiting for the first time? 

 

Whether you have previously visited other churches or if this is your first time, visiting any church can be a daunting experience. 

 

You may worry about what you're going to experience, or feel self-conscious in fear that you may 'do something wrong'. You may think that as a newcomer you'll be pounced upon, or fear that you'll be be abandoned to muddle on by yourself. 

 

When you arrive at church you'll be greeted by someone who will give you the things we use in our worship. You're then free to find a seat for the service - there's no reserved seats at Holy Trinity! You might want to sit somewhere where you can see what other people are doing so you know when to stand up and sit down etc. However if you're unsure where to go then please do ask. 

 

We think that music is a very important part of our worship and most of our services feature music either played by the organ, sung by the choir or for the whole congregation to sing. Don't worry if you don't know the music - some people join in with the singing, others don't. 

 

You may have joined us for our main Sunday morning service at 9:30am and it might be helpful to walk through what happens. The service is in three parts - the introduction, the liturgy of the word and the liturgy of the sacrament. 

 

In the introduction the priest welcomes and introduces a time when we reflect upon who we are and the things we have done wrong. We ask God for forgiveness and, through the priest, we are forgiven for all our sins. 

 

Secondly is the liturgy of the word. This is when we hear different readings from the bible: one from the Old Testament (the Hebrew Bible), one from the New Testament (Christian letters and writings) and a story from one of the Gospels (a moment in the life of Jesus). For the Gospel reading we all stand and turn to face the place where the Gospel is read, because the life of Jesus is at the very centre of the life of the church. It is the heartbeat of the community. We then listen to a sermon based on the readings we have heard. After this, we stand and say together the Nicene Creed, an ancient statement of what Christians believe. Following this is a time of prayer. Finally we stand and share God's peace with one another by turning and shaking hands or bowing our heads to those around us, and saying 'peace be with you.'

 

Thirdly is the part of our worship everything else has been leading up to - the Liturgy of the Sacrament. Here we remember the night where Jesus gathered with his friends, broke bread and shared wine and asked them to remember in this way. Though we may not understand, we believe that Jesus becomes truly present among us as we share in the gifts of bread and wine. If you are baptised then you are welcome to receive Christ at the altar (though some people choose to wait till they are are confirmed), or you may choose to receive a blessing (anyone can receive a blessing), or you may just want to stay in your seat. Any of those options are fine. The service ends with the priest giving a blessing to the whole congregation. 

 

That might explain a little of what we do every Sunday but it is impossible to get a sense of what it means to worship God simply by reading what goes on in the service. The only way it can ever become meaningful is by taking part. You may not understand everything or get it all right, but then worship isn't about 'getting it all right.' It is about being prepared to experience the one true and living God, often in ways that surprise and amaze us. 

 

Church may seem scary but at every step there are people who want to support you and help explain what is going on, so please do get in touch. Mother Claire is always happy to meet with anyone who wants to explore coming to church but would like to know more or ask questions first.

 

"Philip found Nathanael and said to him, “We have found him about whom Moses in the law and also the prophets wrote, Jesus son of Joseph from Nazareth.” Nathanael said to him, “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?” Philip said to him, “Come and see.”     John 1:45,46

Find us: 

Holy Trinity, Southchurch Boulevard,

Southchurch, Southend-on-Sea, SS2 4XA

Contact us:

holytrinitysouthchurch@gmail.com

01702 597596

8 Pilgrims Close, Southend-on-Sea, SS2 4XF

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